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		<title>Why do power structures create fear?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 22:56:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The reason structures of power create fear is to control. The more pressure they maintain on creating fear maintains the rightness of their wrongness. For example, corporate copyright holders have created a mindset that says: &#8220;To share a file is to steal.&#8221; Does this statement sound morally appropriate for you? Why? Is it because you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The reason structures of power create fear is to control. The more pressure they maintain on creating fear maintains the rightness of their wrongness. For example, corporate copyright holders have created a mindset that says: &#8220;To share a file is to steal.&#8221; Does this statement sound morally appropriate for you? Why? Is it because you have reasoned beyond the mindset corrupt corporations have created for you? Let&#8217;s say I assume that:</p>
<p class="ealert">To share a file is NOT to steal.</p>
<p>I doubt the corporate mindset assumption because our culture is distinguished by a context that:</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">01</span> Maintains profound thinkers busy in universities with “high talk” that blinds them through arrogance and pride. Does not let these thinkers to spread ideas freely because there is an obligation to constantly establish their authority through academic circles that does not contradict the mainstream ideas. (See <a href="http://www.archivefreedom.org/casehistories.htm"> Archive Freedom</a> and <a href="http://www.uow.edu.au/~bmartin/pubs/99rsppp.html">an article on science suppression </a> ) Provoking guilt in order to prevent sharing of valuable information. As a result, information is controlled through a peer pressure.</p>
<p><strong>Goal</strong>: Control information that leads to critical thinking.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">02</span> Creates fear in order to control. Disseminates disinformation that leads to fear. Creates propaganda that controls people’s morality. Controls creator’s beliefs, so their only option is falling into the corrupt corporate claws.</p>
<p><strong>Goal</strong>: Control content creation through fear and false or non-fulfilling hope.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">03</span> Allows the perpetuation of the belief that money provides the necessary control to thrive. Money is the goal that everyone should seek. Peer pressure is applied to those who believe and act differently to that mindset.</p>
<p><strong>Goal</strong>: Control people’s identity and true desires through greed.</p>
<blockquote><p>We live within a culture that is based on the latter ideas, but if we change those assumptions our broken belief system will change. Let&#8217;s return to our original premises: “To share a file is to steal” or “To share a file is NOT to steal”, so we can analyse how structures of power create fear to control how we think.</p></blockquote>
<p>If we know that each idea that has been assumed as true comes from a structure of power, then how can we work without that assumption? We need to challenge common sense ideas through multiple perspectives. Let’s see why sharing a file is not to steal. Let’s being with an example that copies without any regards of our morality: Nature.</p>
<p class="eworld">Nature is not guided by corporate greed or human belief. Nature is a good basis that challenges human bias. Now, nature copies naturally and creates small variations with each copy. Why does nature copy? What is the purpose of copying? Why have we become a culture that rejects nature’s basic principle?</p>
<p>We would not be here if our cells hadn’t copied from our parents cells. This is a fact. So, how can our morality go against the pattern that has allowed our existence? The answer is greed. If we have destroyed nature without regard of the consequences, why wouldn’t we go against ourselves due to that same greed?</p>
<p><a title="146/365. 7 Deadly Sins : GREED by Anant N S (www.thelensor.tumblr.com), on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/anantns/6699892843/"><img src="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/greed.jpg" alt="146/365. 7 Deadly Sins : GREED" width="429" height="640" class="aligncenter" /></a></p>
<p>Well, we could be going against ourselves if we support corrupt corporations’ greed because these prevent us from living fulfilled and being truly creative. We support these corporations because that is what we know, what we think keep us safe, what we think is right&#8230; But is it?  </p>
<p class = "einfo"> In order to maintain the idea that to share is a crime, we must accept it. Thus, social guilt is established through propaganda by corporate bullies. Rather than creating social responsibility toward true creators, we fall into a blind trap. They want you to feel guilty because your guilt is fear and acceptance toward their state of affairs as righteous although they are corrupt. </p>
<p>For example, a business guideline could be to wear a suit. Why do they want to force you into being like them? Your own style and creative thrust might go against their views, and you need to become them: a pattern that can be disposed if it does not satisfy the greedy structure of power. This has to stop! We are all unique, although similar…</p>
<p class="message">The structure of power, corrupt corporations and governments, create fear to control us. They brainwash our everyday reality through propaganda with the hope that you will not be critical of them. For example, one symptom of being brainwashed is not accepting the fact that it could be possible. If you doubt yourself, then you are in a position to doubt others.</p>
<p>These power structures are afraid of you because those who create fear must have fear in their hearts first.<br />
How much doubt is proper and where should decide that belief is necesary? Well, that is up to you and your knowledge of yourself and your surroundings. Feel, intuit, and express who you are! The discovery of yourself is part of this journey called life.</p>
<p class="eheart">No one can take that away from you, only you can deprive yourself from such liberation. No one can tell you what is right, deep inside yourself a prism of love lights you with life and creativity, and it is up to you to discover it.</p>
<p>Remember that no power structure will even give you real security! If you realize this, then you can begin to set yourself free from the fear and anxiety that has allowed us to be insensitive toward others’ suffering.</p>
<p>Photo Credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/anantns/">Anant Nath Sharma </a> <a href="http://www.thelensor.tumblr.com/"> (www.thelensor.tumblr.com)</a></p>
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		<title>How can I know if I have been brainwashed?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 22:32:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered if what you think is really original or merely a copy of your culture’s opinions without any variation? To what extent can you consider yourself an individual with own knowledge of his/her interiority? Many of us are asleep, consumed by the propaganda machine that has instantiated our identity. For example, you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered if what you think is really original or merely a copy of your culture’s opinions without any variation? To what extent can you consider yourself an individual with own knowledge of his/her interiority? Many of us are asleep, consumed by the propaganda machine that has instantiated our identity. </p>
<p class = "redtag">For example, you may believe that you are being just if you follow the law. Is this so? What about the truth? The truth is prior to the law, but why do structures of power control the truth through propaganda machines?</p>
<p>Well, they know that if they control who you believe you are then you will be submissive to their wills. They want to control your will because they also do not understand who they are. They have been fooled by the same system that they thought would make them feel secure and free. For example, an individual that thought that money would give him all the power needed to do whatever he wanted might be surprised to know that: </p>
<p class = "enote"> The more money, the less freedom I have.<br />
The less power, the more freedom I have. </p>
<p>This might sound counterintuitive in the current culture, but if you analyze deeply these factors you will be surprised. Let’s breakdown these two cases:</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">01</span> If I have a lot of money, then I have more responsibility toward the structures that provide me such money. First, I create a lifestyle that depends on such amount of money. Then, I might have to obey my boss because he might threaten me. As a result, I cannot stop doing what is giving me such flow of cash. </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">02</span>If I have a lot of power, then other people who want that same power will constantly trying to overpower me. Firstly, I strive toward power. Once I get there, I have no freedom to be who I really want to be because my only goal becomes protecting the power that I believe have. As a result, my freedom depends on the same structure I think I control but actually controls me.</p>
<p>In fact, the illusion of external power is like a drug high. It provides the illusion of having control, whereas in reality, power exists only over oneself. Power within a social context is temporal and illusory because the fact is that deep within the human spirit shines a passion toward liberty. </p>
<p class = "star">That inner light is the voice that the propaganda machine cannot silence. </p>
<p>It has tried for many decades to brainwash your morality and ethics. The laws that have been passed do not represent who you really are, and if they do, then why are we still living wars and suffering? Why is people dying of hunger while others are dying of overweight?</p>
<p class = "greentag">For example, the rightfulness of copyright laws and the lack of morality of shared-files are issues that have been put inside your head during this century. You might think that these laws are made to protect you. Why would people who want power and live through greed care about you?</p>
<p>Do you really think people who create fear and label you as a criminal merely by sharing are interested in your well-being and fulfillment? Have you ever really thought that perhaps these copyright laws are meant to create cultural guilt? Those who are in power can amend the law to fit their purposes, but those who have none are guilty from the get go. Why?</p>
<p><b>Imagine this dystopian scenario: </b></p>
<p class = "ealert"> You cannot use their own words against them because they own those words, but when their words become your thoughts, then you become criminal. You cannot share what they create, but they create what you think. What you think then creates your identity and your sense of self becomes oppressed due to who owns the information. The final step: They own you. </p>
<p>Do you see the point here? Information is within you, so if they own the information then you can be a criminal for merely thinking about their stuff without their permission. They might allow you to think about their products, but they will make you feel guilty for doing so in order to control you more and more. This scenario seems far from our reality, but Orwell’s 1984 could have seemed farfetched when it was written&#8230; </p>
<p>Conversely, what would happen if you choose not to drink their Kool-Aid?  Would you be free to be who you really want to be? Can you describe yourself, and as a result begin to feel free as you wander into the true you?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bovinity/220092399/"><img src="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/copyleftbovinity.jpg" alt="" title="copyleftbovinity" width="640" height="480" class="aligncenter" /></a></p>
<p>So, why are these propaganda machines working so hard into making you feel like a bad person? You are meant to feel guilty. Guilt makes you feel fear. If you fear, then they can control you. So, wake up from the slumber! I will point out some questions that could guide you into knowing if you are brainwashed, but be critical! Rethink again and again until you have an inner certainty of truth! </p>
<p class ="equestion">
Do I act out of fear?<br />
Do I fear consequences of those who have power?<br />
Am I deprived of intuiting truth?<br />
Do I feel oppressed and anxious?<br />
Am I deprived of what makes me be fulfilled?<br />
Am I depressed?</p>
<p>If the answer is yes to these most of these questions, then you really need to rethink all the thoughts that have shaped who you are. You know the truth deep within you, and no one else does. </p>
<p class = "eheart"> Remember that if you act out of love rather than fear, then no propaganda machine or structure of power can control you. Is this true? </p>
<p>Photo Credit: By <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bovinity/220092399/" title="Copyleft" target="_blank">alex roberts | bovinity</a></p>
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		<title>How to be compassionate?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 21:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are two types of compassion: pity-compassion and love-compassion. What is the main difference from these two types of compassion? Could there be more types? What is Pity-Compassion? You actually are gaining something from your &#8220;good actions&#8221;. Your state of mind is not of pure attention toward the other and yourself. For example instead of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are two types of compassion: pity-compassion and love-compassion. What is the main difference from these two types of compassion? Could there be more types? </p>
<p class ="equestion">What is Pity-Compassion?</p>
<p>You actually are gaining something from your &#8220;good actions&#8221;. Your state of mind is not of pure attention toward the other and yourself. For example instead of listening deeply to the others&#8217; real needs, you do what you deem is compassionate without actually observing the what is happening to your surroundings.</p>
<p class = "alert"> This is the type of compassion that makes you feel good if you do &#8220;good&#8221;, a type of goodness that represents an actual projection of your own beliefs.</p>
<p>For example, you will only give to those who you believe are in need because your perception of what is in need is limited within your concept of &#8220;who should or should not need&#8221;. I believe that a poor person should need something I &#8220;have&#8221;, so I give him money or &#8220;something&#8221;. I believe that sad person should need happiness, so I make a joke.</p>
<p class = "exclamation"> Can you see that pattern here? It is not actually about who is needing and their understandings of life, but about what you <strong>believe</strong> they should need based on your own biased experiences that does not attend others&#8217; reality.</p>
<p>We are taught that this type of compassion is actually good, but what is the use of compassion if you are not really understanding its depth? </p>
<p class ="tips">Of course, there is some sort of benefit. If a person is crying, and your actions do provoke an actual visible change that might actually benefit, but not because of your intentions but because of your passionate attention toward others.</p>
<p> It is this true devotion and attention to the other where love-compassion lies.</p>
<p class ="equestion">What is Love-Compassion?</p>
<p>You cannot gain anything because it is not about your &#8220;beliefs&#8221;, but about actually observing and listening deeply to the other. It is in this state of pure awareness where one actually listens or pays attention that true compassion can occur.</p>
<p class = "eheart">Your state of mind is in the present. It is not worried about the past or the future, but about doing what is possible now. You actions are full of love because your perception is open to the other.</p>
<p>This might sound radical, but in fact it is a <a href="http://books.google.ca/books?id=krNPL6xCVL0C&#038;printsec=frontcover&#038;dq=compassionate+mind&#038;hl=en&#038;ei=a0M_TeKLIoGClAfF8PH9Ag&#038;sa=X&#038;oi=book_result&#038;ct=result&#038;resnum=1&#038;ved=0CCYQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&#038;q&#038;f=false">process to learn how to become compassionate</a>. You might start trying to be compassionate due to your own beliefs of who might need your help, but as you become more aware of the facts that surround you&#8230; Your approach to other&#8217;s pain is much more conscious.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s give an example:</p>
<p class = "epaperpencil"> You see a man in the street, and at first it might seem that if you give money to him you are being love-compassionate. Well, if you do believe that to give money is love-compassionate you are wrong.<br />
Why? If you had paid closer attention to him you would have seen that he had a bottle of vodka peeking under his jacket. You could have smelt his alcoholic breath, and you would have understood that a man who is drunk might as well be an alcoholic.<br />
The money you could have given him would have promoted a state of deeper depression within that man asking for your &#8220;compassion&#8221;. </p>
<p>However what would have happened if instead of giving him money, you asked him if why was he living in the street? Could that act be of love-compassion? What if by asking sincerely for the well being of this person, he realizes there is something worth living for?</p>
<p class = "equestion" > Can you distinguish the difference between pity-compassion and love-compassion?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/16230215@N08/4066005402"><img src="http://projectlove.me/images/howtobecompassionate.jpg" alt="Helper - B4" title="Helper - B4" hspace="5" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>Pity-compassion is about imposing yourself on others. It is about your beliefs and thoughts being imposed in the other one who might be asking for &#8220;compassion&#8221; through any mode of expression: sadness, explicit, anger, etc.</p>
<p class = "babyheart"> Love-compassion is about caring so much that you actually pay attention, listen, and observe the other person deeply. </p>
<p>Sometimes the most compassionate act of love is actually not saying or doing anything, but actually caring deeply and waiting for the precise moment to act. You do not act when you are ready, but when the other person is actually paying attention as well. Sometimes to be an example is far more compassionate than to just say a few words&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>Each person must find their own balance, and their own ways to reach a state of constant love-compassion.
</p></blockquote>
<p>Sometimes, an act of pity-compassion is in fact the antechamber of love-compassion. Do not follow these ideas as a rule book, instead be flexible and use it as a guide. I might be wrong. My intention is to expand your awareness to the fact that our beliefs of what is compassion might not be in the right track.</p>
<p class = "note"> Sometimes it is better become aware and devote your attention to others, than to give money to the ones who seem to be &#8220;poor&#8221;. It is in attention where radical change lies, not in a mere economic &#8220;enhancement&#8221;.</p>
<p>Sometimes our <a href="http://projectlove.me/tag/belief/">beliefs </a>are the ones who prevent us to actually listening to the other&#8217;s desperate but simple plea that might be shattered by our own self-contained thoughts.</p>
<p>The simple plea might be:</p>
<p class="heart">Please, accept me.<br />
Please, don&#8217;t judge me.<br />
Please, only love me.<br />
Are you actually attentive?</p>
<p>Photo Credits: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/16230215@N08/4066005402">Hartwig HKD</a></p>
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		<title>How to convince others?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2010 21:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do not convince. Challenge! Only radical thought has actually created change because they have challenged traditional structures of thought, and have made people THINK BY THEMSELVES! So point a path&#8230; Lead the way in your own unique forms: Artistically, Scientifically, Philosophically, etc. Our tradition urges us to convince, but to convince means to settle to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do not convince. Challenge! Only radical thought has actually created change because they have challenged traditional structures of thought, and have made people THINK BY THEMSELVES! So point a path&#8230; Lead the way in your own unique forms: Artistically, Scientifically, Philosophically, etc. </p>
<p class = "tips">Our tradition urges us to convince, but to convince means to settle to the other&#8217;s conditioning.  </p>
<p>Instead, Challenge! </p>
<blockquote><p>Challenge your own thought until there seems to be no answer! After doing so, then challenge others.</p></blockquote>
<p> They might give you an answer or you might leave them thinking, but at least you have dared to go into your limits. The only way to progress when it seems a dead end is to put forth things that are not commonly combined.</p>
<p>For example, why does a person who loves to measure and believes in the reality of science ignore the reality of the present moment? Get the contradiction?</p>
<p>This is the point: </p>
<p class = "greentag"> Measurement is in the present moment, and although some might want to argue that measurement requires the past in order to create a present. At the end, the measurements have to be written down and recorded in a way that is not simply inside the mind. Therefore, measurement has to be touched in a certain point only in the present moment as a collective experience in order to state it is true. </p>
<p>However, if the present moment is so fundamental for the process of measurement. Why are those who believe in measurement lost in the past? Why does a philosopher of science use the mind as a source of truth ignoring the fact that science is not based in mental abstractions at the end of the process?  </p>
<p>I know there are many &#8220;possibilities&#8221; that might fire back at me such as the reality of math, but let us remember that math can be a theory unless proved real by physics, computation, etc. Although, I am crossing fine lines of perspective here&#8230; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dorkomatic/5241685339/" title="Too cold for chess... by Howard Dickins, on Flickr"><img src="http://projectlove.me/images/howtoconvinceothers.jpg" width="375" height="500" alt="Too cold for chess..." /></a></p>
<p>My main point is:</p>
<p class = "talk"> Why does the measure-lover type of person use the past as a devotional source of truth? What about the present moment? Why ignore it so categorically? Why do they so blatantly reject the notion of the &#8220;sublime&#8221; if it is an actual experience in the present moment which could be measured through science?</p>
<p>A counter example, what happens with a person that does not care about the reality of our collective truths such as science? How can you ignore the reality that can be measured and bring actual results? Is it because it is easier to escape, and say it is all a weird dream? What about the pain and suffering of those who cannot ignore this &#8220;reality&#8221;? </p>
<p class = "write"> Why ignore the reality of science and the fact that one can actually measure in the brain the way the so called &#8220;sublime&#8221; modifies a physical aspect of ourselves? Why can they become so self-absorbed, but still use any device that exists due to such measurable reality? </p>
<p>In my perspective, both, the non-measurement person believer and the measurement person believer, are right and wrong. Instead of working together, they keep fighting over particulars that might serve a purpose. </p>
<p>Yet, that is not enough to reach a better understanding of the truth: </p>
<blockquote><p>We need to work together, not against each other, through a challenge type of approach. </p></blockquote>
<p>What do I mean?  </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">01</span> Learn to use the other&#8217;s own words against him/her. This requires a certain type of knowledge in order to twist him own belief against him, and a little bit of mental agility. If you actually challenge a person through their own beliefs, then one might actually see our own limits and move on to something more challenging. </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">02</span> Use the exact opposite argument that the other person is expecting to have. If you are debating with a measurement type, argue in favor of non-measurement and vise-versa. Do it with intelligence, not as a childish debate. </p>
<p class = "alert"> Be careful!  If a person is stubborn because they <a href="http://projectlove.me/how-does-fear-create-violence/">base in their beliefs a certain type of inner security</a> stop doing it. You will get nowhere and it will wear you down. </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">03</span>Be flexible, and learn to observe how the flux of ideas are not a static build but a fluid notion that constantly changes. The idea of a static truth is so pervasive that we end up again always fighting for a never-agreement. I am not being absolute here, but if the debate is stuck in a walked path called &#8220;the truth&#8221; by a traditional current of thought that bases their inner security in a belief, then were are we walking toward?</p>
<p>Now, how do you bridge these two? How can you convince them that there acutally is a double position (measurement and non-measurement) or even broader position we might not be aware of? </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dorkomatic/4510655451/" title="The Total Perspective Vortex by Howard Dickins, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4060/4510655451_304ce4b2e6.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="The Total Perspective Vortex" /></a></p>
<p>An empirical multidisciplinary person can do such a gigantic task, but it requires self discipline. Just as one learns to play an instrument although one could have the paradigm of being inept in music, and at the end ends up mastering it. If one hates math, then by trying to understand something, not to marry to it, but to understand it, then an inner paradigm is released, and so forth.</p>
<p class="message"> With empirical I mean a person who does not base his inner security in a belief, that changes his belief when he sees that he is wrong, and is capable of recognizing openly their mistake. </p>
<p>Then, one can actually begin to learn how to explain to others something that might seem totally counter-wise as something coherent and with a certain truth.  Truths are tricky, but if they are tricky then how can one convince others? </p>
<blockquote><p>Ha! Not convincing! Of course&#8230; Is it? Maybe not?
</p></blockquote>
<p>For example, if I know that brain science can measure the sublime in <a href="http://books.google.ca/books?id=8ywrjDa0vZ8C&#038;lpg=PP1&#038;ots=ZUd2P0ln1x&#038;dq=zen%20brain&#038;pg=PP1#v=onepage&#038;q&#038;f=false">Zen</a>, why reject the notion of such reality? What if the the unmeasurable can be measured, not by the observer, but by the observing?</p>
<p class = "note"> Note: Not the observed, but the observing. The observer within the sublime will not feel measurement, but the observing will. A single shift in perspective can cause a new way to challenge our tradition, and thus create a better society that actually cares about ourselves, not only solving the problem of truth. </p>
<p>Is in the present moment the only &#8220;place&#8221; to find out the &#8220;truth&#8221;? Do you see the point? There is a lot of depth here, but I will not spill the beans! Think by yourself, and find it out! </p>
<p class = "greenyes"> Yes, of course, if we have a common truth we might believe peace shall arrive, but why wait for that moment? Why not find peace within ourselves first? What if what we have been taught is &#8220;the truth&#8221; is actually a belief? </p>
<p>Photo Credits: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dorkomatic/">Howard Dickins</a></p>
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		<title>How does fear create violence?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Dec 2010 00:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The way fear creates violence is quite interesting. One must first analyze: Where does violence come from? to find out that violence is created from fear. You are free to skip the previous post, but become aware by your own analysis of the fact that violence and fear are intimately tied. The image of self [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way fear creates violence is quite interesting. One must first analyze: <a href="http://projectlove.me/where-does-violence-come-from/">Where does violence come from?</a> to find out that violence is created from fear. You are free to skip the previous post, but become aware by your own analysis of the fact that violence and fear are intimately tied. </p>
<p class = "find"> The image of self needs a sense of security in order to function. There are different types of security: Physical and Psychological. If there is a threat, then the process of fear begins to be self evident. </p>
<p>Psychological security cannot be found in our exterior, but we are taught that it can be found through money, goals, and power. The only thing that can be gained through these &#8220;objects&#8221; is physical security. However, one must be aware that physical is never really possible. You can have an accident or have &#8220;bad&#8221; luck.</p>
<p class = "greentag"> The first step in order to gain awareness is to realize that the concept of security as we have been taught is a total lie. We struggle into finding someplace, sometime, and somehow. It is always a tomorrow to be gained, a past to be overcome, but what happens with the present moment? It gets lost in the midst of the concept we call time. </p>
<p>Why have we created a shrine out of time? Why is the concept of time so deeply ingrained in our system of beliefs?</p>
<p>This psychological security will never be found outside of yourself. Psychological security depends solely on your ability to understand yourself and be aware of yourself.</p>
<p><a class="lightbox" href="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/observingfear.jpg"><img title="observingfear" src="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/observingfear.jpg" alt="Observing Fear" width="576" height="432" /></a></p>
<p>However as one gets deeper into the process of fear, it might be more difficult to become aware of our involvement in it; unless we are constantly informing our consciousness of this process through mindfulness.</p>
<p>Is this true? How  Find out by observing your self as you act within violence, fear or sadness. Maybe I am wrong at this, so become an empiricist of your own mind!<br />
<blockquote>I am only a guide, not the rule! </p></blockquote>
<p>If I ask you, are you afraid of death? Will you take some time to consider this? Or will you instantly say: Naaa&#8230; I do not care about dying. Bring it on!</p>
<p>If you instantly answer that you are not afraid, could it be that you are so deep into the process of fear that you cannot recognize it? If you answer again with a simple no, then I ask you: Have you been angry recently?</p>
<p class="stop">If you answer no, then stop reading! You might not ready to understand this or you might already be pure peace. Your call. No hard feelings! </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s move on with those who can actually accept that fear is present in their lives most of the time in a very subtle mode or are not actually living inner peace. </p>
<p>You might be aware of the fact that you do not live a profound inner peace, but maybe you have never experienced a moment of fulfillment that is not directly related to an achievement.  </p>
<p class = "babystar"> Are you ready so tired of suffering that you cannot bear it anymore? Are you tired of trying to achieve the impossible because there is always more to crawl into? Are you in a state of depression that cannot be ignored any longer?</p>
<p>Well, if you are in that state of complete surrender to the reality that is being presented day by day. You feel there is no way out&#8230; I have good news for you!<br />
<blockquote> The greatness of becoming more aware is always waiting for you!</p></blockquote>
<p> Your suffering is directly proportional to your violence and fear. You might ask: <a href="http://projectlove.me/where-does-my-suffering-come-from/">Where does suffering come from? </a> How does suffering relate to fear? </p>
<p>It is all related in a very subtle way. You can become aware of it through direct observation of your thoughts and feelings as they begin to creep in and try to control you. </p>
<p class = "talk"> You might say, &#8220;Well, that is too difficult. I cannot do it. I have never done it.&#8221; </p>
<p>Well if you think you can&#8217;t, then you are not sick tired to your bones of suffering. Believe me! Once you say, enough is enough from your most inner core&#8230; </p>
<p class = "alert"> You CAN do it!  Nothing but yourself is stopping you! </p>
<p><strong>Tired of suffering?<br />
</strong></p>
<p class = "heart">
Choose awareness over control.<br />
Choose fulfillment over power.<br />
Choose inner liberty over goals.<br />
Choose love over fear.<br />
Choose peace.
</p>
<p>I have given you a simple guide with a hypothesis of the process of fear. My theory might not apply to you, but it is a walked path that can help you understand yourself faster.</p>
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		<title>What is real?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 18:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s play a game! I will ask some questions, and then you should think by yourself the answers. These questions will be weird in order to explain what is real in a lateral manner, ok? Ready! Imagine that there is no god. What is real? (e.g. Nietzsche so famously said this, so you can read [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s play a game! I will ask some questions, and then you should think by yourself the answers. These questions will be weird in order to explain what is real in a lateral manner, ok? Ready! </p>
<p>Imagine that there is no god. What is real?  (e.g. Nietzsche so famously said this, so you can read him if you want an answer. He pushes it toward <em>amor fati</em>. Do not be fooled with his famous &#8220;nihilism&#8221;.) </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/memeplex/2449921510/" title="Imagine by Jamboid, on Flickr"><img src="http://projectlove.me/images/whatisreal.jpg" width="500" height="330" alt="Imagine" /></a></p>
<p>Imagine that there is no real, but also imagine that there is no &#8220;nothing&#8221;. Do you see the contradiction? They always say: we have two possibilities (real or nothing), but what if it is not a dichotomy and that is causing all the problems. Imagine none, no two&#8217;s. Can you imagine that or all you can see is nothing, that is the something (concept) called nothing? </p>
<blockquote><p>Or this or that, better shut up, they say&#8230; But, do not settle! </p></blockquote>
<p>Tradition is not a rule, it is meant to be a guide, so you can learn to walk your own path just as a baby learning to walk. You can only guide a baby into the possibility of walking, but not walk for him.</p>
<p class = "talk"> Radical thinking is what will change the world for the better if it is done with intelligence. </p>
<p>What is intelligence? Have a scientific framework where there is no &#8220;hard science&#8221; such as humanities or philosophy. </p>
<p>What is a scientific framework? Use the scientific method as an exploratory guide. </p>
<p class = "alert"> Be aware that a key aspect of a scientific reasoning is: You change when you realize you are wrong, do not keep a belief just on the base of faith. </p>
<p>Faith can have multiple forms, and it is very&#8230;  seductive to the point one might not realize one has faith in a certain belief due to our own conditioning through experience and tradition.</p>
<p>This is my &#8220;scientific&#8221; method and you must create your own, but be sure to be open to the possibility of always being wrong. That is the key aspect. You are wrong without knowing it, and you will realize later why you were wrong, although you might had been right within that certain context. </p>
<p class = "babystar"> Get it? Perspective and context plays a role here. Here it goes: </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">01</span> Observe deeply. What is deeply? Observe without chit chat in the back of your brain. Not possible to make it quiet? Ask why? How can I stop the chit chat? Observe, don&#8217;t analyze yet, just observe! Become one with the observed. Do you think this is possible? Of course not, if you are &#8220;thinking&#8221; instead of observing, then you cannot get it! </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">02</span> After observing, realize (become aware) that you observing. You can become aware of the stillness, in such silence you can begin to understand what is real within your senses quite alert. </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">03</span> Now, begin to test your observations through analysis, chit chat can come back being aware of the fact that you are chit chatting. This is an initial jump to start to test the waters of reality, not an actual hypothesis. It is like a child that is learning for the first time how the world works freshly. </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">04</span> Create a hypothesis once you test the waters, and test it in its particulars, then open the particulars to the broader perspective, and again make use of step 2 until it is no longer needed. </p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">05</span> Can you see how things or perspective changes as you modify from particular to generals?</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">06</span> Understand, observe where the hypothesis is valid, and where it is not. Perspective is relevant here, imagine that there are levels of understanding that can be opened up as you remove your inner paradigms. </p>
<p>Hypotheses in a philosophical nature are very tricky, so begin to realize this slowly: </p>
<div class='et-box et-info'>
					<div class='et-box-content'>Generals (of the first person) can be absolute if the particulars (of the second person) are relative. </p>
<p>Particulars (of the first person) can be absolute if the generals (of the second person) are relative.</div></div>
<p>What does this crazy non-sense talk mean? </p>
<p>An example is this in &#8220;Generals can be absolute if the particulars are relative&#8221;: </p>
<p><strong>First Person Generals: </strong>There is no reality, nothing and all is non-existent like a dream. </p>
<p><strong>Second Person: </strong>This is a general that is absolute, then ask: What are the particulars? </p>
<p><strong>First Person:</strong> I am depressed. I cannot live with my pain. I need to use drugs. I want to die and sleep all the time. </p>
<p><strong>Second Person:</strong> So, if you are deeply compromised in a type of reality (your particulars), then your generals will be absolute. </p>
<p>They are real within your own context, so you get that and don&#8217;t fight over something that is non-sense! </p>
<p class = "babyheart"> If the second person realizes that those particulars are relative, then peace can occur and we can move on discussing more important things&#8230; Instead of fixing with relative-absolute stuff. </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s turn the tortilla, and give an example of &#8220;Particulars can be absolute if the generals are relative&#8221;:</p>
<p><strong>First Person Particulars:</strong> I am a depressed person who will find enlightenment that can remove me from my suffering if I do meditation everyday. </p>
<p><strong>Second Person:</strong> This is a particular that is absolute for the first person expressing it. It is a total belief that is the fundamental of his existence. I will not threaten his belief directly. He is being particular, but arguing it as a general. </p>
<p class = "greentag"> In this perspective, if we can actually see that particulars for the first person are absolute, then a second person can be open to the specifics by having a relative approach to a general belief by a person being specific in his approach, then one can understand why he or she says so and move on. </p>
<p>Now, this general-particular stuff is so misunderstood that it is causing many problems. It might sound simple, but everyday people fight over particulars (relative or absolute) that they believe are general (relative or absolute) within each characteristic particularity.</p>
<p class = "babysearch"> Can you see the problem here? Each side argues that they know what is real, when actually they both are right and they both are wrong&#8230; It all depends on the perspective and context. </p>
<blockquote><p>Remember: A scientific mind admits when one is wrong! There is no pride, only the truth is real.
</p></blockquote>
<p>Yet, we begin to fight over non sense without even observing and listening deeply to the other, or even oneself. </p>
<p>You might even ask, well.. Great perspective exists, nothing new! What is real beyond perspective? </p>
<p class = "find"> Aha! My dear reader, do you think I would spill the beans so easily? Never! </p>
<p>The challenge is in your side, and the unknown remains in my side of the court because I might or not know&#8230; And at the end, it does not matter to you, does it?</p>
<p class = "redtag"> Well, to give you some hints let&#8217;s move this idea even further, ok? Ready&#8230; Here we go!</p>
<p>Imagine that you are in a dream, then what is real? Can a dream be real? You might think so as you dream fully within it, right?  </p>
<p>However, what if there is no dream? What if the dream is a projection of your brain, and it has no reality? Could it all be reduced to matter? </p>
<p>Imagine you had different senses, like an insect who can see vibrations or a dog who can see with smell, could that change your perspective of what is matter? What if you were able to &#8220;see&#8221; details normally ignored?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/memeplex/3148447813/" title="Brances #2 by Jamboid, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3228/3148447813_aa31ae25a6.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Brances #2" /></a></p>
<p>We believe matter is substance, like a visible thing,  but what if &#8220;matter is energy&#8221;? What if other beings can sense energy, not only substance, how would that change the game? What would be real then?</p>
<p>Imagine that with those different senses, you realize that everything you had thought was reality is a total lie. Imagine you have synesthesia, and what you taste has colors, the numbers you see have smell, the colors also have taste, imagine more options, etc.  What is real, then? </p>
<p class = "note"> Do you believe your brain and your experiences or do you believe what others say is real? How do you reconcile opposite views when a majority believes in their &#8220;hard&#8221; core senses? </p>
<p>Well, do not reconcile! Express your unique individuality through art and science.  You shouldn&#8217;t feel guilty for being different. We are all different, but are trained to be the same in order to believe in a collectivity; one that we believe to know as real. </p>
<p>However, do we really know what is real?</p>
<p>I do not think so because we believe that our reality is only that which we experience within a collective framework. All others are crazy cows! Put them in a cell, they do not know how to behave!!! So sad. Or not? Maybe we still have hope! </p>
<blockquote><p>To be unique is good! </p></blockquote>
<p>Make others understand&#8230; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/memeplex/2468611367/" title="Happiness by Jamboid, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2168/2468611367_4af5c626a2.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Happiness" /></a></p>
<p>The importance of art is to let others enter the realm of the unpredictable, your own original self.</p>
<p>However, science can do the same thing art is doing but through a &#8220;fact&#8221; type of approach. </p>
<p>Both contain facts in the sense that once you create your artwork, it is a fact: a piece of the present that can be observed&#8230; </p>
<blockquote><p>It is real when you are observing it directly with your own senses.
</p></blockquote>
<p>Now, imagine a <a href="http://www.immersence.com/">3D immersion</a> where you are challenged to let go of your normal senses. What is real there? What is real when your brain is challenged to react in a totally unknown reality?</p>
<p class = "greenyes"> It is in these experiences that one can actually begin to understand what is real. It is when you challenge your own paradigms about what is, and then open your eyes to actually observe deeply what is in front of your eyes with complete clarity without mind chatter. </p>
<p>Ready to enter this new &#8220;reality&#8221;? Ever thought the matrix was a parody&#8230; </p>
<p>Think again! AHA! </p>
<p>Think by yourself! </p>
<p>Challenge tradition, and be yourself.<br />
Who are you?</p>
<p>Photo Credit: By <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/memeplex/2449921510/">Jamboid</a></p>
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		<title>Who can teach me the truth?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 18:27:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The answer is: Yourself. You are the only one that can teach you the truth. This question seems quite simple to answer, but it is much more interesting to understand why? Why can I only teach myself? However, to some people this answer might seem counter-wise their own set of established beliefs. The reason is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The answer is: Yourself. You are the only one that can teach you the truth.  This question seems quite simple to answer, but it is much more interesting to understand why? Why can I only teach myself? </p>
<p>However, to some people this answer might seem counter-wise their own set of established beliefs. The reason is that we are traditionally taught that you have always teacher: at first it is your parents, then school teachers, even new type teachers might be needed after school, etc. So, let&#8217;s get this straight. </p>
<p class = "note"> Yes, there might be teachers that explain stuff to make it easier to understand, but my question is: Who can teach me the truth? </p>
<p>What is the truth? Well, some might say science is the truth. Is this true? Well&#8230; In a way it is, but in another way it is not. Science can be proven to be false, and we change the truth to state the new truth. For example, we at first thought that the earth was flat. We now know it is not. It took many years to find out it was not flat. The reason it took so many years is that it was counter-wise their established set of traditional beliefs. Science is regarded as the truth because it changes as we admit and prove new ways of perceiving and interpreting reality in a group. </p>
<p>However, let&#8217;s go beyond the boundary of science. Let&#8217;s go into the individual&#8230; This terrain is tricky. There are many theories in philosophical books, and I won&#8217;t go there. You can search them if you are curious. I might not even be aware of the greatness you find there. So, what am I doing here?</p>
<p class = "repeat"> I put forward a concept to you from a &#8220;fresh&#8221; perspective. Perhaps, you might agree with me, but I do not want to be agreed upon. I want to make you think. I want you to challenge me, but truly listen and grasp what I am saying. </p>
<p>Then, you are free to crush me politely.</p>
<div class='et-box et-shadow'>
					<div class='et-box-content'>That said, let&#8217;s go into my core argument: The truth can only be found if you engage with the process of being aware of the truth as it unfolds in front of your eyes.</div></div>
<p>Yes, the only real truth is here. It is in this exact moment as you read this. It is not an abstraction that you can elaborate in the past or in the future. Many of us spend enormous time trying to grasp the fundamentals of the universe, but we are doing it this way: </p>
<p class ="greentag" > We use the reality of the present moment to create another reality within our own heads. The concept of the truth is stored in our brain, and we use that concept as if it were actually true, not realizing that the only truth is the present moment. </p>
<p>Of course, the present moment can include any concept because you have defined them and you use them to alter your reality as you think and act upon those thoughts. However, to believe that these concepts are the whole reality, and these can translate into truth and pure facts is a lie, a lie nurtured by tradition.</p>
<blockquote><p>The belief that all can be explained through thoughts, verbs, etc. is an arrogant presumption.
</p></blockquote>
<p>However, the belief that the truth can be grasped in an abstraction is totally counter-wise in a practical sense because: </p>
<p class = "babystar"> The truth must be real. What is real? The only real thing is here and now. The past is not real anymore, and the future is not here. This instant of perpetual infinity is the only truth. If you wake up this instant, and realize this was all a dream. Then, your new reality &#8220;the non-dream state&#8221; is the truth, not the past or the present, but that now.  </p>
<p>So, how can someone else teach you the truth? How can someone teach you something that is not teachable? You have to observe it and become aware of it individually. How is this done? </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/brianglanz/2383687611/" title="Just the Right Angle by brian glanz, on Flickr"><img src="http://projectlove.me/images/whocanteachmethetruth.jpg" width="500" height="499" alt="Just the Right Angle" /></a></p>
<p>There are many theories, but I will not spill the beans. You have to find it by yourself. You have to teach yourself the truth. You have to wake up to the fact that authority does not have the answer. </p>
<div class='et-box et-info'>
					<div class='et-box-content'>Really, if they knew&#8230; Why isn&#8217;t it evident? Why is the world full of violent ignorance? Why is peace such a romantic fantasy? What is going on that we keep fighting with each other over the &#8220;truth&#8221;? See? No one is agreeing!</div></div>
<p>Please, at least let&#8217;s accept this situation. There is no agreement regarding the truth. Why don&#8217;t we at least accept it as a society, and move on? </p>
<p>Why don&#8217;t we accept differences, instead of projecting our fears in others&#8217; beliefs? Why don&#8217;t we promote creative thinking, instead of tying to create equal molds of being?</p>
<p class = "babysearch"> We are ingrained with the belief that we must follow an authority figure. Do you know why this happens? </p>
<p> It happens because we feel security in believing that someone else knows the truth. If someone else knows the truth, then I might feel an illusion of safeness because although I do not know, others know, and I will someday know. </p>
<p class= "greenyes" > Stop! Think about this by yourself! Stop searching for a tomorrow that will reveal the truth. Stop searching for a teacher. You are the teacher and the student. You are the only one that can actually through your own experience live the truth. Stop nurturing the guru with ego. Stop praising the one who says he or she knows. </p>
<blockquote><p>Better, yet&#8230; Also doubt what I am saying, and do what you want.
</p></blockquote>
<p>You can walk the path of the teacher until you are tired of following the authority that doesn&#8217;t lead you anywhere and you realize you have been walking in circles with such figure. </p>
<p class = "star"> Just have this in mind: The relationship teacher-student is a power relation. There is a very fine line that can be crossed, and the student might fall into the trap of following without questioning. </p>
<p>Why? The teacher might lie. The teacher might not know. The teacher might have an enormous ego that the student is feeding. A teacher that needs a student is trapped within the desires of the student. The teacher is also trapped in the expectations of the student. </p>
<p = class "greentag"> It is a power relationship, and one will always be trapped within a framework of belief unless you decide to stop the situation. </p>
<p>In a power relationship, if you have the lower status: It is almost impossible to win. The process of belief, how belief creates psychological safety, and the role it plays within those structures impede your ability to convince. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/takomabibelot/4237771865/" title="Tyrant Boot (Pittsburgh, PA) by takomabibelot, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2752/4237771865_19a044794f.jpg" width="481" height="500" alt="Tyrant Boot (Pittsburgh, PA)" /></a></p>
<p>However, the student does have power over the &#8220;teacher&#8221; because it is a power relationship. </p>
<p>For example, if the teacher does not convince as he expects to do or the student decides not to be taught anymore, then a certain kind of hostility might occur. Although, it might seem at a first glance that in a teacher-student relationship the one who always loses is the student&#8230; It goes both ways.</p>
<p>The teacher is gaining something by teaching, if not: Why do it? Could it be total non-self interest? It might be. It is not my position to judge. </p>
<p class= "stop" > However, keep in mind I am not being specific. You might have a great teacher&#8230; So, this might not apply to you, right? Great! Stop reading then, unless you really want to challenge your framework of beliefs established by those important figures in your life. </p>
<p>Ready? Want to continue? This is the thing:</p>
<p>The truth cannot be shown. If your teacher is wonderful as you might desire to believe, then ask him: Can you show me the truth? </p>
<blockquote><p>If he or she is wise, the answer will be: No. I cannot show you the truth.
</p></blockquote>
<p>Why? Why would a wise teacher be unable to show to the truth? A truth must be shown in order to believe, isn&#8217;t it? However, seeing is not believing because we use abstractions to reach a conclusion that is concrete. </p>
<p class = "stickynote"> If the teacher can&#8217;t see that you are the only one who can see the truth, then what are you learning: Languages? Science? Philosophy? </p>
<p>Remember, perspective plays a role here. Don&#8217;t expect a person who lives within a framework of language to point out something that is not within that context. </p>
<p>Why do we tend to treat something that is an abstraction as a concrete fact through language? Why do we choose security through belief, than challenging ourselves to the unknown? Could it be fear? <a href="http://projectlove.me/why-do-we-feel-fear/">Why do we feel fear?</a> How does fear work? Could we be afraid to acknowledge that the truth cannot be taught?</p>
<p class = "find">The idea here is: The truth cannot be taught if the truth is in the present moment.</p>
<p>What does this mean? It means that if you are searching for the holy grail in your mind, instead of opening your hands to the reality in front of you. How will you find something that is there, but you prefer to be blind due to your own set of established beliefs that cause you to feel fear if ever threatened? </p>
<p class = "alert"> You might be wondering&#8230;  Well, why do you ask questions? It is very easy to ask questions. You are no different from the so called &#8220;teachers&#8221;.  </p>
<p>In fact, you are quite right. I am no different those so called &#8220;teachers&#8221;, but my point here is to make you think. I do not care if you believe me or not. I am challenging through those questions you might love to hear answered, and yes it might be easier to just ask the question. </p>
<blockquote><p>But at the end, I might be wrong. </p></blockquote>
<p>However, could it be more difficult to express a question in a precise order, so you can follow the concept without giving you an answer? Perhaps&#8230; Who knows? </p>
<p class = "babyheart"> My purpose: I would like you to realize that you are the only one that can actually answer some questions through your experience within the context of finding the truth. </p>
<p>Is this a sort of a teaching? Yes, but you still have the option to say: I don&#8217;t agree with you. Wonderful, I applaud your conviction. Keep asking questions! Keep arguing against me! Observe and listen deeply with great attention, and find the truth. </p>
<p class = "babytalk"> Could I rephrase this by telling you: &#8220;Be the truth.&#8221;? How would that change the game? Why would it change it? Could that be related with what I wrote before about the truth is in the present moment? </p>
<p>Photo Credits: First image By <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/takomabibelot/4237771865/">takomabibelot</a> Second By <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/brianglanz/2383687611/">brian glanz</a></p>
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		<title>Where is heaven?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 01:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered if the concept of heaven really exists? Well, conceptually of course it does exist. If not, we would not understand this question. If you grew in a certain tradition of belief that uses the notion of heaven in order to gain security of our future after death, then the question is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered if the concept of heaven really exists? Well, conceptually of course it does exist. If not, we would not understand this question. </p>
<p>If you grew in a certain tradition of belief that uses the notion of heaven in order to gain security of our future after death, then the question is not where, but does it exist? Does heaven exist? There are some possible answers: Yes, no, irrelevant, or perhaps. </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s go with perhaps&#8230; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/11599314@N00/2088202973"><img src="http://projectlove.me/images/whereisheaven.jpg" alt="Puerta al cielo" title="Puerta al cielo" hspace="5" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>People who live and are raised within a set of traditions and beliefs that claim heaven does exist must ask themselves, where is heaven? If you just answer, heaven is the sky or heaven a special place after death&#8230;</p>
<p class = "talk" > Please, ask: Why do you believe in heaven if you have no idea of where it is? How can you believe in something that is impossible to define in a spectrum of locality or space? </p>
<p>You might answer: Well, that is what faith is all about&#8230; </p>
<p>I will ask again: Is your reality based on pure belief? Why? Is this a choice you made? Did you family brain wash you with the idea, and now it gives you so much security that you cannot live without such faith? How painful is it to read this? Are you willing to rationalize what is deeply ingrained within your mindset?</p>
<p class ="stop"> If you can&#8217;t rationalize, stop reading because I will challenge you. I will make you ask questions you might not want to know about, so please. Stop. </p>
<p>If you are willing to risk your mindset and hard core beliefs in order to know where is heaven, then keep reading. </p>
<p class = "note">Let&#8217;s define the other case: What happens if you are one of those who believe that heaven does not exist? </p>
<p>In such case, I ask: What is heaven? Should we define heaven as a place where mythological figures sleep and live in pleasure? Could heaven be something abstract, but we tend to create a tangible concept out of  it because that is all we know? </p>
<p>Perhaps, but where is it? </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/21680590@N06/4654423909"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4038/4654423909_4b0363aaa2.jpg" alt="âœ½ marguerites âœ½ daisies âœ½" title="âœ½ marguerites âœ½ daisies âœ½" hspace="5" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>If it is an abstraction, then there is no actual locality. If one choose to search for such a place, then one might want to possess the concept in order to believe. In the process of possession, one might lose the reality of the concept in order to feel secure with such concept. What do this mean? </p>
<blockquote><p>If the concept of heaven, is not a real place but an abstraction, then where is it? Of course, in the mind!  Is this true?</p></blockquote>
<p>All abstractions are in the mind of the one understand such concept. Now if heaven is in the mind because it is an abstraction, can we actually convert an abstraction into something concrete? </p>
<p>Of course, how? Imagine an idea&#8230; I have an abstract idea, the idea of happiness. In the back of my mind, there is this concept called happiness. However, it is an abstract idea unless I am experiencing happiness in the actual moment I bring to reality my abstraction. </p>
<p>Therefore, in the same manner, could we create from the concept of heaven, a reality, one that is not in a strange place, but here in the present moment? </p>
<p class = "stickynote"> If we ask this, then we have another question: Well, what if my abstract concept of heaven is not the same as yours? Does that invalidate my concept of heaven? Is a consensus needed in order to achieve a concept of heaven? </p>
<p>In order to answer, I ask: Does the fact that you feel happiness erase its reality if the person beside you is angry and can&#8217;t feel your happiness?  Of course not or does it? Take a deep breath, and test this out. </p>
<p>Be yourself heaven!  Find heaven as an actuality within yourself as a reflection of your inner haven. The way to achieve this is to realize within yourself that heaven is not a place, but an actual reality expressed and felt within. </p>
<p class = "greenyes">The paradigm shift in this idea is to ask: Is heaven inside of yourself? Could it be that heaven is not a place one will find after death, but a reality inside of me? Could I realize through experience that heaven is me? Could it be possible to live a heaven within this reality (i.e. this objective place conceptualized as Earth) through my own experiences of fulfillment and love? </p>
<p>Could heaven be here already, but we are so stubborn with those traditional beliefs that we lose sight of what is actually in front of us always?</p>
<p>Think it out! Observe yourself! Find out through your own experience, and defy my thought after understanding what I mean. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/h-k-d/3050163685/" title="Heaven's Gate by h.koppdelaney, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3002/3050163685_fbfe641dac.jpg" width="500" height="374" alt="Heaven's Gate" /></a></p>
<p>If you simply reject this because you are attached your traditional beliefs, then ask: What will happen if heaven does not exist? What will happen if heaven does exist? </p>
<p>What would change if we were able to live heaven here and now, instead of waiting for a non-reality (i.e. not in the present moment) to occur? </p>
<p>Photo credits: First image By <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/11599314@N00/2088202973">Luz A. Villa</a><br />
Second by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/21680590@N06/4654423909">âœ¿ nicolas_gent âœ¿</a><br />
Third By <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/h-k-d/3050163685/">h.koppdelaney</a></p>
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		<title>Where does violence come from?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 16:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Violence is so predominant in our society, and one must ask why? How does violence arise? Why does it seem impossible to stop? Let me first begin with the fact that fear creates violence. People use fear to control others, but what they do not realize is that that same fear in fact will create [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Violence is so predominant in our society, and one must ask why? How does violence arise? Why does it seem impossible to stop?</p>
<blockquote><p>Let me first begin with the fact that fear creates violence.</p></blockquote>
<p>People use fear to control others, but what they do not realize is that that same fear in fact will create violence in order to defend itself from the boogie man.</p>
<p>Now, is this true? Does fear create violence? One has to seek within ourselves, and ask: Is there a relationship between myself being anger and a state of fear? For example, if I lose a loved one. I get angry at life. Is this anger directly proportional to the loss of the loved one? Is this anger related to my state of fear because I feel vulnerable without my loved ones who gave me a sense of inner security?</p>
<p>This is a suggested process of how violence could work within ourselves:<br />
<a class="lightbox" href="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/Root-of-Violence.jpg"><img title="Root of Violence" src="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/Root-of-Violence.jpg" alt="Cycle of Violence" width="558" height="496" /></a></p>
<p>The chain that does not end, unless you end the conditional response. A response that has been nurtured by a cultural tradition of what kinds of responses are expected from you when being attacked. Ask yourself: When did you learn to act this way? Do you remember a specific moment? Most probably, you won&#8217;t. In fact, what you will remember is a set of rules set by example.</p>
<p class="talk">Your family might be trapped within this cycle or perhaps, a lover or a dear friend. If you do, realize that this process is taking place in your life. The only way to cut the chain is to walk away from those who are not willing to modify their pattern of aggression.</p>
<p>This might sound radical, but how can you change someone or something that is not willing to admit that something is wrong? You can&#8217;t. </p>
<p>You can only choose to change yourself, and that can only be done if you are no longer in the cycle. There are certain people who might trigger these emotional processes easier than others within yourself. Therefore, do not expect to change instantly. It takes time to override each and every button you have that can be triggered by a removal of your beliefs of safety (i.e fear based manipulation).</p>
<p>The reason people use fear to control is because it works in the short term. If you fear something, you will easily fall into manipulation of those who want to control you.</p>
<p class="greentag">For example, if you do not want to sleep. Perhaps, a family member threatened to call the police and take you away if you did not sleep when they told you so. That act is creating fear through psychological violence.</p>
<p>In fact, fear is not good or bad.  It is supposed to prevent you from harming yourself, but I ask: What would happen if our society stopped controlling through fear? What would happen if instead of fear, a new process called awareness of the consequences occurred?</p>
<p class="redtag">As in the example above, what would happen if instead of threatening with the police, one would explain once and again the reason one has to sleep early? Why is it not explained that it is needed to rest in order for others to rest and also to be strong every day after resting?</p>
<p>It is not about not being able to understand! It is about being patient until one gets it! But, what happens if we are inside the cycle? Is there a way out? This is a suggestion, but do work out your own process.</p>
<p><a class="lightbox" href="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/how-to-become-aware.jpg"><img title="how to become aware" src="http://projectlove.me/wp-content/uploads/how-to-become-aware.jpg" alt="If you are inside the cycle of violence" width="576" height="432" /></a></p>
<p>Without  deep analysis  there won&#8217;t be real progress. Repeat each time you are in the cycle of violence. Don&#8217;t expect to be violence free at your first attempt. It is a process. It will take many years to master a peace  mindset. Be patient.</p>
<p class="heart">Why do we prefer to threaten, instead of being patient? The reason is fear.</p>
<p>The use of threats occurs because the one threatening is afraid of the response of the one being manipulated. However, if one does not fear but understands and becomes patient&#8230; Where will fear go? What happens with fear? Does it really matter if we cannot eradicate fear? What is the key aspect here?</p>
<blockquote><p>In order to overcome fear and violence, one must become aware.</p></blockquote>
<p>Fear is the one that will make you enter the cycle of violence. It is not until to realize this that you can actually change your violent mindset, thus by becoming aware you can change. Fear can be overcome if it is confronted. If it is ignored it could become harmful through this vicious cycle, until you decide enough is enough! However, if fear is ignored&#8230; There might be a very good reason. </p>
<p class ="write">Do not be fooled or convinced by my ideas. I am just initiating the discussion. Challenge! Defeat my thought with real awareness of yourself. You need to get into it by yourself. </p>
<p>It is all up to you to change! No one will do it for you. You are the only one who that can beat violence through an awareness of its process within yourself as you feel your body getting tense with adrenaline.</p>
<p class="repeat">Choose not to fall into the cycle. If you fail to be calm, do not fall into the trap of frustration as it is also part of fear. You might be afraid of not letting go of the cycle. Fear is elusive, yet it might be there when you think it is not.</p>
<div class='et-box et-shadow'>
					<div class='et-box-content'>Be calm. Be patient. Observe yourself. Question these ideas, and create your own solutions. Observe your inner self mindfully to become aware!</div></div>
<p>Only your own observations can answer this!</p>
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		<title>How to be Anonymous without breaking laws?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 03:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just to make it pretty clear: To be part of Anonymous has nothing to do with breaking the current laws or neither is against any particular interest. Anonymous is any person that is raising awareness toward the need of a new society that actually questions authority in an intelligible and respectful manner. Anonymous is here [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just to make it pretty clear:<strong> To be part of Anonymous has nothing to do with breaking the current laws or neither is against any particular interest. </strong></p>
<p>Anonymous is any person that is raising awareness toward the need of a new society that actually questions authority in an intelligible and respectful manner.</p>
<p>Anonymous is here to stay, and therefore is everywhere because it is a state of consciousness being communicated through the Internet that strives toward:</p>
<blockquote><p>Freedom and Truth</p></blockquote>
<p>For example, Creative Commons or Open Source is part of this awakening of consciounessnes that is now being labeled as Anonymous.</p>
<p>Anonymous is about raising awareness through their own and unique ways. Here are some ideas:</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">01</span>If you are a creator, use an open licence with everything you create. You choose how free, what type of licence, but make it free as in freedom to distribute.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">02</span> Allow people to donate although you might also sell your work. Some might offer a smaller amount to demonstrate their support because they might not be able to afford your established price tag.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">03</span> If you are a person working in a factory or corporation, be creative. Express your individuality in places they seek to have a mono-system of being.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">04</span> Be loving, calm, kind, and assertive toward those who are rude and even aggressive toward you. Never return aggression with your anger, instead walk away with peace of mind. Ask:<a href="http://projectlove.me/where-does-violence-come-from/"> Does violence come from fear?</a></p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">05</span>Ask and expect accountability toward those who are currently in the structures of power.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">06</span>Challenge the traditional ways of doing things. Do not fall into the peer pressure of doing things. If you feel it is not right, say NO!</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">07</span> Keep asking questions. Never accept a shallow answer. Keep digging until you realize what is the truth, and what is an interpretation or a method of propaganda to make you believe in something that is not real.</p>
<p class="blocknumber"><span class="bignumber">08</span> Study and change the laws through political activism. Laws are a living entity, not a static book to follow. Be stronger that lobbyists.  Protest! Insist with your voice that one is not surrendering to those who seem to believe have power. Remember: They are powerless without you.</p>
<p>Ask deeply: What is fear? Where does fear lie within you? What is the role of fear? Why do people use fear to control?  Are there good types of fear? How far does fear go? What is the function of fear? Can we completely remove fear from our inner self? How?</p>
<p>Activism occurs by becoming aware of our condition as sheep, and at the instant when one chooses not to be part of the herd anymore:</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>One is Anonymous. </strong><strong> </strong></p>
<p><a title="Anonymous at Scientology in Los Angeles by Sklathill, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sklathill/2255718951/"><img src="http://projectlove.me/images/howtobeanonymous.jpg" alt="Anonymous at Scientology in Los Angeles" width="500" height="273" /></a></p>
<p>Anonymous is evolving because as each person that realizes he or she is part of Anonymous, it changes.  Each person uses their own knowledge and perception of the truth to change the currents of thought within reality. Therefore, Anonymous is something that cannot be imprisioned.</p>
<div class='one_half'>
					Many of you, might be part of Anonymous and not know it. Many others, might think they are part of Anonymous, but have a different concept of it than the one here stated. The mere fact that it is not static, and constantly evolving is what makes Anonymous strong. Anonymous is a state of awakened awareness. There are many more ways to take action. Be creative! Be peaceful! Become aware&#8230;
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					<div class='et-box et-info'>
					<div class='et-box-content'>It is a global consciousness awakening to the fact that we are everyone, and everyone is Anonymous.  One cannot stop an awakening of consciousness. One cannot stop unity. One cannot stop Anonymous. One cannot stop YOU.</div></div>
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<p>Photo Credit by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sklathill/">sklathill</a></p>
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